DIY Natural Hair Detangler Spray: Effortless, Knot-Free Hair with Simple Ingredients
Say goodbye to the daily struggle of tangled hair! Our homemade natural hair detangler spray makes combing through even the most stubborn knots a simple, stress-free experience. Forget about harsh chemicals and embrace the power of nature with this easy-to-make solution. Using just a few common, natural ingredients, you can create a highly effective homemade detangler right in your kitchen. This comprehensive guide will walk you through the process, share expert tips for detangling, and introduce you to the best natural ingredients for healthy, smooth hair. Get ready to transform your hair care routine and make brushing a breeze for both you and your children!

This post is sponsored by NOW® Solutions. All opinions are 100% my own.
Transforming Hair Brushing: The “Anti-Fight” Detangler
If you’re a parent, especially of a little girl with long or curly hair, you know the daily battle that can unfold around hair brushing. What should be a simple routine often turns into a wrestling match, complete with squirming, tears, and endless pleas of “Are we done yet?” I distinctly remember the frustration, both for myself and my daughter, August, when trying to untangle her hair. Despite her mostly straight locks, she frequently develops significant knots, especially at the back of her head, from all her active play and daily adventures. It used to be a hard, painful process for both of us, leaving us drained and defeated.
This challenge led me to seek a better solution – one that avoided the heavily fragranced and often chemical-laden detanglers found in most stores. That’s how this natural homemade hair detangler was born, and it has truly been a game-changer. We often call it our “anti-fight spray” because it has single-handedly transformed our hair-brushing experience from a dreaded chore into a peaceful, even enjoyable, moment. This spray makes hair incredibly soft and smooth without leaving any greasy residue, allowing knots to glide out with remarkable ease.
Recalling my own childhood, with my wild, curly, and unruly hair, I can only imagine how much easier things would have been for my mom if she had a product like this. She used to braid my hair at night just to keep it somewhat manageable. This DIY detangler not only makes hair care more pleasant for children but also provides immense relief for parents, fostering a happier environment for everyone involved. It’s truly a win-win for the whole family.
Why Opt for a Homemade Detangler? The Natural Advantage
My decision to create my own natural hair detangler recipe was primarily driven by concerns over the ingredients commonly found in conventional products. Many commercial detanglers contain a cocktail of synthetic chemicals such as artificial fragrances, methylisothiazolinone, polysorbate-80, and cetrimonium chloride. These substances can be irritating, potentially allergenic, and some are even linked to more serious health concerns, making them far from ideal for regular use, especially on children.
By crafting your own detangler, you gain complete control over what goes into the bottle. This recipe relies on just a few simple, pure, and natural ingredients, offering peace of mind and promoting healthier hair. When sourcing these ingredients, I consistently turn to NOW® Solutions. Their unwavering commitment to quality and purity has made them my trusted brand for years, and I confidently recommend their products for all your natural personal care needs.

Key Ingredients for Your Homemade Natural Hair Detangler
Each component of this DIY detangler plays a crucial role in creating a powerful, yet gentle, formula. Let’s explore why these specific ingredients are ideal for untangling and nourishing your hair naturally:
- Water: The base of our spray. When working with water in any homemade product, especially those without strong preservatives, there’s a potential for bacterial growth over time. To ensure the best results and extend shelf life, I highly recommend using distilled water. If distilled water isn’t readily available, boiling regular water and allowing it to cool completely before use is an excellent alternative, as it helps eliminate impurities and potential contaminants.
- Vegetable Glycerin: This incredible ingredient acts as a humectant, meaning it draws moisture from the air directly into your hair strands. This process helps to hydrate and soften the hair, making it more pliable and significantly easier to detangle. I especially love NOW® Solutions Vegetable Glycerin because it’s naturally sourced from non-GMO palm, grapeseed, and coconut oil, ensuring a pure and high-quality product for your hair.
- Apple Cider Vinegar: More than just a kitchen staple, apple cider vinegar (ACV) is a fantastic natural hair conditioner. Its slightly acidic pH helps to flatten and seal the hair’s cuticle, which not only enhances shine but also reduces frizz and makes hair feel smoother. This sealed cuticle also helps prevent future tangles by creating a slicker surface. ACV can also help balance the pH of your scalp, promoting a healthier environment for hair growth.
- Jojoba Oil: Often referred to as “liquid gold” for hair and skin, jojoba oil is rich in vitamins (E and B-complex) and minerals (copper, zinc). What makes it unique is its close resemblance to the natural sebum produced by our own scalps. This allows it to moisturize deeply without clogging pores or leaving a greasy feel. Jojoba oil helps to soften hair, prevent dryness in both hair and scalp, and can even promote hair elasticity, making it less prone to breakage. NOW® Organic Jojoba Oil has long been a personal favorite, a versatile staple in my natural beauty arsenal, also used in my Homemade Makeup Remover.
- Essential Oils: While entirely optional, adding essential oils can significantly boost the benefits of your detangler, infusing it with delightful aromas and therapeutic properties. In this recipe, we suggest a blend of lemon, chamomile, and lavender. These oils offer a variety of hair-loving qualities, which we’ll delve into further below. NOW is renowned for its commitment to providing the highest quality, purest essential oils at accessible prices, ensuring you get the most potent botanical benefits.
Effective Tips for Detangling Hair Like a Pro
Beyond a great detangler spray, the technique you use can make a world of difference in managing tangled hair. Incorporate these tips into your routine for easier, gentler detangling:
- Start with Very Wet Hair: This is arguably the most crucial tip. Hair is most pliable and less prone to breakage when it’s thoroughly wet. Water acts as a natural lubricant, helping to loosen knots and allow your comb or brush to glide through more easily. The drier hair becomes with knots already formed, the more challenging and potentially damaging it will be to comb them out. Always apply your detangling spray to damp or wet hair.
- Choose the Right Tools: Invest in a good quality “wet brush” or a wide-tooth detangling comb. These tools are specifically designed to minimize snagging and pulling on wet, vulnerable hair. A wet brush, with its flexible bristles, was a complete game-changer in our household, significantly reducing tears and frustration. Avoid fine-tooth combs on wet, tangled hair, as they can cause excessive breakage.
- Distract and Engage: For little ones, hair brushing can feel like an eternity. Keep them distracted with a favorite book, a captivating show, or by engaging them in conversation. If possible, having another person entertain them while you focus on detangling can also be incredibly helpful.
- Section Your Hair: Instead of tackling the entire head of hair at once, divide it into smaller, manageable sections. This allows you to focus on one area at a time, making the process less overwhelming and more effective. You can use hair clips or ties to keep the sections separate.
- Work from Ends to Roots: Always start detangling at the very ends of the hair, gently working your way up towards the roots. This prevents pushing knots further down the hair shaft and creating larger, more difficult tangles. Be patient and use short, gentle strokes.
- Utilize Detangling Spray Generously: This homemade detangling spray is your best ally. Spritz it generously on each section of hair before you start combing. The slickness it provides will dramatically reduce friction, allowing knots to unravel with much greater ease.

Harnessing the Power of Essential Oils for Hair Health
While optional for detangling, essential oils can add wonderful fragrance and a host of benefits to your hair and scalp. Here are some of the best essential oils for hair care, along with important usage notes:
- Lavender Essential Oil: Renowned for its calming and soothing properties, lavender is not only delightful for the senses but also beneficial for hair. It can help promote a healthy scalp, reduce frizz, and impart a beautiful shine. Its gentle nature makes it suitable for most hair types, including children’s hair.
- Chamomile Essential Oil: Roman Chamomile oil is particularly excellent for adding softness and natural shine to hair. It also has anti-inflammatory properties that can soothe an irritated scalp, making it a great choice for sensitive individuals. (Source)
- Lemon Essential Oil: Lemon oil is often used in hair care for its brightening and invigorating properties. It can add a healthy sheen to hair and offers a wonderfully fresh, uplifting scent. However, it’s crucial to be aware of the risk of phototoxicity associated with citrus oils.
- Rosemary and Peppermint Essential Oils: These oils are celebrated for their stimulating properties, often used to promote hair growth and circulation in the scalp. However, **they are not safe for young children** due to their potency. If you are making this recipe specifically for children, it is imperative to skip these oils entirely to avoid any adverse reactions.
A Note on Phototoxicity: There is always a concern for phototoxicity (increased sensitivity to sunlight, potentially leading to burns or discoloration) when using citrus oils directly on skin that will be exposed to the sun. While this recipe uses a very small, diluted amount of lemon essential oil, if you are concerned, you can simply forgo lemon oil in this recipe, use it only at night, or opt for other non-phototoxic essential oils like lavender or chamomile.
Personal Anecdote: The combination of lavender, chamomile, and lemon essential oils in this detangler creates a truly magical aroma. The first time I used it on my 4-year-old daughter, her eyes lit up, and she exclaimed, “Wow! That smells heavenly!” It’s a small detail that makes a big difference in making hair care enjoyable.
Watch The Tutorial
For a visual guide on how to prepare this amazing detangler, check out our video tutorial:

Step-by-Step Guide: How To Make Homemade Natural Hair Detangler Spray
Making your own homemade natural hair detangler spray is incredibly simple and takes just a few minutes. Here’s how you do it:
- Combine Ingredients: In a clean jar or directly in your chosen spray bottle, add the distilled water, vegetable glycerin, apple cider vinegar, and jojoba oil. Ensure accurate measurements for the best consistency and effectiveness.
- Add Essential Oils (Optional): If you’re using essential oils, add your chosen blend to the mixture. A total of 10 drops is a good starting point for a pleasant aroma and therapeutic benefits. For example, about 3 drops each of chamomile, lavender, and lemon create a lovely, kid-friendly scent.


- Mix and Store: Secure the lid on your jar or spray bottle and shake vigorously to thoroughly combine all the ingredients. Before each use, give the bottle a good shake to ensure the oils and water are well mixed. Store the detangler at room temperature, away from direct sunlight, for optimal freshness.
How To Use Your Homemade Detangler:
For the best detangling results, follow these simple steps:
- Prepare Hair: Ensure hair is wet – either freshly washed or thoroughly dampened with a spray bottle of plain water. Gently shake your homemade detangler spray bottle to mix the ingredients.
- Spritz and Section: Spritz the detangler generously onto sections of wet hair, focusing on areas with more tangles. Start with a small section and work your way through the entire head.
- Comb Gently: Using a wet brush or a wide-tooth comb, start combing from the very ends of the hair, gradually moving upwards towards the roots. This method minimizes pulling and breakage. Be patient and gentle, allowing the detangler to lubricate and loosen the knots.

Explore More of Our Favorite Homemade Natural Products:
If you’ve enjoyed making and using this natural hair detangler, you might love exploring other DIY personal care recipes:
- Homemade Face Wash
- Green Tea Clay Face Mask
- Homemade Makeup Remover
- DIY Makeup Brush Cleaner
- Homemade Hair Spray
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Homemade Natural Hair Detangler
Homemade natural hair detangler spray, crafted with just a few simple, natural ingredients, is an incredibly effective way to manage and untangle knotty hair, leaving it smooth and easy to comb.
Rating: 5 from 7 votes
Author: Amy
Prep Time: 5 minutes
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Ingredients
- 1/2 tablespoon vegetable glycerin
- 1/2 teaspoon apple cider vinegar
- 1/2 teaspoon jojoba oil
- 4 tablespoons distilled water
- 10 drops essential oils (e.g., approximately 3 drops each of chamomile, lavender, and lemon for a soothing blend)
Instructions
- Mix all ingredients (water, glycerin, apple cider vinegar, jojoba oil, and essential oils) together in a small bowl. Alternatively, you can pour the ingredients directly into your spray bottle.
- Pour the combined mixture into a clean spray bottle.
To use:
- Shake the homemade detangler spray well before each use to ensure all ingredients are thoroughly mixed.
- Spritz generously on wet hair, then gently comb through starting from the ends and working your way up to the roots.
Notes
- For best results, spray the detangler when hair is still quite wet. Knots become much harder to comb out once hair starts to dry.
- Utilize a specialized wet brush or a wide-tooth detangling comb to minimize pulling and breakage. These tools are designed to glide through tangles more effectively.
- Always work in small sections of hair, applying the detangler to each section as you go. This helps manage tangles more efficiently and reduces overall effort.
Course: DIY, natural product
Keyword: DIY detangler, homemade detangler, homemade hair detangler, natural hair care, essential oil detangler
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